Michael Scott Thamm
Michael Scott Thamm, 52, of West End, passed Monday March 8, 2010. Mr. Thamm was born July 7, 1957 in Groton, CT,. to the late Captain Tom Brobeck Thamm and Sally Snyder Thamm.
Mr. Thamm was a talented musician, artist, and writer. Mike changed people’s lives through his music, whether people were listening to him or playing with him. He learned to play the guitar as a young boy, and played a multitude of instruments. He passed on his love of music by teaching children to play.
Mike Thamm never met a stranger. No matter how busy he was, he always had time to talk and to help others. He had a twinkle in his eye, an infectious laugh, a legendary sense of humor, and a bit of mischief. He could make the best of every situation. He loved being on the water, a trait he gained from his dad.
Mike was a graduate of NC State and has worked in the agriculture and landscaping industry for over 30 years. He offered his help wherever he could, volunteering with Family Promise, joining mission trips to Brazil, and chairing the Moore County Agricultural Extension Service. He was a member of the Cattleman’s Association and volunteered for the Vass EMS. Mike contributed to the lives of local citizens in ways too numerous to mention.
Mr. Thamm is survived by his wife of seventeen years, Jacquelin Mains Thamm of West End, and his three sons, Dustin and Gavin Thamm of Raleigh, and Taylor Norfleet of West End. Mike had five siblings, Mark Thamm of Keene, NH, Marijke Kehrhahn of Cobalt, CT, Marta McKenna of Paramus,NJ, Kenneth Thamm of Hatfield, PA, and Kacey Miller of West Chester, PA and eighteen nieces and nephews. Mr. Thamm was preceded in death by his parents.
Michael was a great father, a loving brother, a devoted husband, a best friend and will always remain in our hearts.
A memorial service will be held Friday March 12, 2010 at 6:30PM at Culdee Presbyterian Church in Eastwood with the Rev. Christopher Bobo officiating. Burial will be private in Culdee Cemetery at a later date. Memorial donations can be made in memory of Michael S. Thamm to Friend to Friend Crisis Center at PO Box 1508 Carthage, NC 28327.
Services entrusted to Boles Funeral Home of Seven Lakes.
March 11th, 2010 at 12:58 pm
I am a retired Presbyterian minister. I met Mike when his committee was interviewing prospective interims for Culdee Church. Mike came to Broadway to hear me preach several weeks later. I was deeply impressed with Mike, his spirituality, his leadership abilities, and his love for Culdee Church. I thought how blessed any minister would be to work with him in the church. He is a rare Christian gentleman, and I hope Culdee will have other leaders who can follow his example.
March 11th, 2010 at 12:59 pm
Jackie, we are thinking of you during this diffcult time. Our hearts go out to you and the children. Mike was a great, great person. He did so many nice things for all of us and what talent Mike had and shared. Our Culdee family will miss his greatly. Mike made a difference in the lives he touch. He will be missed forever.
March 11th, 2010 at 1:10 pm
MIKE,
THE BIBLE SAYS THAT IN OUR FATHER’S HOUSE THERE ARE MANY MANSIONS. I HOPE WHEN I GET THERE, THAT MINE IS RIGHT NEXT TO YOURS.
LOVE YOU MAN!
GLENN
March 11th, 2010 at 1:29 pm
Jackie and Taylor,
We are so sorry about the loss of Mike. He was a wonderful person and we loved to hear his music.
May God hold all of you close and bless you during this time.
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
John, Rhonda, and Celine Bullock
March 11th, 2010 at 2:14 pm
Kacey…When my borther passed someone sent the below to me. I am hoping you will find it as comforting as I did.
Love, Gina
I am the wind
I am the rain
I am the sunlight through your window pane
I am the leaf turning brown in the fall
I am the faintest whisper on the breeze when you call
I am the snowflake that kisses you cheek
I am the child in the park playing hide-n-go seek
I am the scent of the flowers that fills the spring air
I am all around
I am everywhere
I’ll always be with you from this moment on
In your every dance
In your every song
You see when we move on we never truly die
We become one with nature
We unify
Take care my precious one
At my passing don’t dwell
See you someday
All is well
March 11th, 2010 at 2:52 pm
I met Mike many many years ago at a friends house while playing Guitars. As said in his obits, He never met anyone who didn’t like him right off the bat.He was a great musician and an all around great guy.I had a chance to talk to him just recently after many years of not seeing him and it was as if we had keep in touch on a daily basis. He just made you feel special and always loved to talk about anything. God has a place for people like Mike and I’m sure he needed Mike’s help on something special. We’ll all miss him but I look forward to seeing him on the other side and playing a few tunes. God Bless You My Friend
Peter D. Carpenter
Pinebluff, NC
March 11th, 2010 at 4:57 pm
I will truly miss Mike. He was such a funny, caring,thoughtful, considerate & talented man.
Many many people in this community were touched by Mike & will always be grateful.
His love for people & music was such a obvious thing…you could tell by his smile. One of my staunch Facebook buddies..I will miss chatting with Mike & his good buddy Nikko.
I’ve talked to Nikko & he’s very upset, but he will get thru it as all of us will. Jackie & family…you are constantly in my mind & heart…I pray for your strength & comfort…I hope you find peace in the fact that he’s needed in a better place & it was time to move on…I believe there’s a reason for everything which is hard to fathom right now, but he was needed to do better things.
Love, Micky
March 11th, 2010 at 5:02 pm
To the Thamm family, Please accept my sincerest sympathies for your loss. I have nothing but good memories of Mike and loved him very much. We became friends many years ago but lost touch. We recently found each other again and I am truly grateful for that. I will miss him very much. “….all of this emptiness will pass away, but the memory of you will never fade.” Rest in Peace my friend, until we meet again.
March 11th, 2010 at 5:13 pm
I am so very sorry to hear of Mike’s passing. Although I did not know him well, I have fond memories of him and his family from my childhood. My deepest sympathy goes out to his dear family. I know that he will be greatly missed by many.
March 11th, 2010 at 5:32 pm
Dear family, We are so sad over Mike’s death. He was a great musician, a great person and a good friend. Unfortunately, we can not attend the service because of a prior commitment. We will be there in spirit. Mike is now playing in heaven’s band.
March 11th, 2010 at 6:11 pm
Sometimes those who we only briefly knew leave us with the greatest emptiness that cannot be filled until we meet again in heaven. We will miss you and your great smile, your spirit and talent!
March 11th, 2010 at 7:01 pm
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
March 11th, 2010 at 7:16 pm
Mike,
I will always remember how you brought out the Kid in all of us. You joy of life, Music and most of all people. I will miss all of who you are. Good bye and say hello to the Captain for me.
Ray
March 11th, 2010 at 8:00 pm
Mikey,
the laughs and music we shared in the very short time we were acquainted were truly a blessing and i am grateful and honored to have known you. you will be missed very much on this side, but i hope our sorrow for your loss will eventually turn to happiness in the memory of the joy you spread and lives you touched. save me a spot for that big jam in the sky. -love and miss you bro.
March 12th, 2010 at 2:40 am
My heart is so sad. We have lost a dear and precious friend. We will forever treasure our memories of Mike sharing his music with us. He was thoughtful and cherished his friendships as we cherished his. Jackie, my heart breaks for you and I know the emptiness you are feeling at this time, please know you are in my prayers. To the boys….he will also be close by and know God will give you strength to carry on.
With all my love,
Sylvia
March 12th, 2010 at 7:55 am
Mike was one of the most charismatic people I’ve ever had the honor of meeting. Although I only sat with Mike on 3 occasions I felt right at home as he had a way of bringing out the best in people (I even seemed to play the guitar better).
My heartfelt sympathy to the family and close friends.
March 12th, 2010 at 9:10 am
Although I haven’t seen the Thamm family for many years I remember them when the boys used to stay at the summer camp I directed. Mr. Thamm and his family were some of the nicest people I know. My heart and prayers go out to you at this time.
March 12th, 2010 at 9:22 am
We are so saddened at your loss. Mike was such a good friend to so many and I especially remember the wonderful time with Mike and the Nacho Daddy’s at The Heritage. We will miss his infectious charisma as he charged the listening crowd with energy. The Sadler’s of The Heritage send our heartfelt love at your loss.
March 12th, 2010 at 9:36 am
His great smile and the sound of the steele guitar will never leave our hearts and souls.
He will be greatly missed.
March 12th, 2010 at 10:46 am
MIke, My heart goes out to you and your family. We talked about family and loss in the past two years. You have given me hope, You have pass some of your musical Talent to Alex and have pick and enjoyed Tyler’s fun nature. You have touched so many for so many years. We will miss the music and the soulful sounds you gave to so many. But we will miss, the man.. most of all A part of you is with all of us… Thank you
March 12th, 2010 at 11:42 am
I met Mike through our musicianship; and instantly knew he was someone different and special. His soulfulness in his music and his sincerety in his smile drew me to him as a friend. My heart is broken and I’ll miss him like a brother. Mr heart is with you Jackie and the rest of your family. May he fly through “Montgomery” on his final journey. I love you Mike!!!!!!!!!
John “LoBoy” Mashburn
Vass, NC
March 12th, 2010 at 1:21 pm
I am so sad to lose an incredible uncle. Though we did not meet up very often, when we did, it was always a time full of laughter and fun. Mike has an amazing spirit and where ever it goes, I’m sure it will make many others happy and loved as it did to his friends, family, and loved ones. His family, including myself, will miss him everyday and think of him often. My thoughts and prayers go out to other members of our family, Mike’s friends, and others that he knew. Only the good die young.
R.I.P.
Love you & miss you very much, Uncle Mike.
“Jessie”
March 12th, 2010 at 1:28 pm
Jackie and family,
You were truly blessed to have a man like Mike as your husband, father, brother as we were blessed to have him as a friend and co-worker in the church. His talents, his smile, even his bit of mischief along with his love for God, Culdee Church and his church family will be missed. We are truly the better for having known him, even for a short while when you consider eternity. One day, we will see him again.
May your fondest memories of your times together carry you through the difficult days ahead. You and your family will be in our hearts and prayers at this most difficult of times. God will be holding all of you in the palm of his hand as he and Mike look down upon you. You will truly feel their presence around you at the oddest of times and in the most unexpected ways.
Love to all,
Pearl Frye, Dean Frye, Ed and Darlene Valitutto
March 12th, 2010 at 2:32 pm
Dear Jackie and boys,
We are so sorry for your lose. Mike was a terrific, talented and funny man. May God be with each of you during this time of sorry..Remember all the wonderful times you all had.Now God has another angel. Our prayers are with you..
Love you all,
Harry and Becky Brady
March 12th, 2010 at 3:30 pm
There is nothing worse then losing your best friend. I know that is what good memories are for, forget any bad memories. You have both been open to help the public. Many people has benefited from Mike more than we knew. You hang on strong and continue to move forward in your work to help people.We send our love and support. If you need to talk please just call.Jackie you life is too short. But we believe Mike would want you to move on with your work or some of his helping others.May God’s love be with all of Mike’s family.
March 12th, 2010 at 3:34 pm
Sorry to hear about your loss. Hopefully all of your fond memories will get you through he tough times. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Peacefully,
Lisa
March 12th, 2010 at 7:54 pm
My condolences to the Thamm Family.
Mike was one of those rare people who come along every great once in a while and just spreads happiness and laughter around him. We only recently connected again after being just casual friends while you lived in NJ. I am honored to have gotten to know you better and to have shared many a good laugh and good music during that time.
Love you Mike, gonna miss you BIG TIME.
I’ll see you on the other side. I’m bringing all 9 guitars!
-p
March 12th, 2010 at 9:02 pm
Jackie and family my thoughts and prayers are with you. Mike was a wonderful and caring person. He always had time and a smile for everyone he met. God Bless You Always. Connie Barber
March 12th, 2010 at 9:23 pm
To the Thamm family, my heart goes out to you for your loss. I met Mike back in 1988 in an establishment where I worked and his band played. I had not seen him since but often wondered how his life turned out. Right away I could tell he was a special person.He was thoughtful, considerate, talented & charismatic! What a contegeious smile!! Just a few months ago I came across a picture of him and I wondered if his boys grew up to look like him. From what I have read here I can tell he never changed and lead a good and giving life. What a blessing to know this. I’m sure to see him on the other side.
Charlotte Sauls Allen
Wendell, NC
March 13th, 2010 at 1:26 am
Oh, how sad I was to hear of Mike’s transition. I am so, so sorry for all of the loved ones he leaves behind so suddenly. What a mischievous boy Mike was when we’d meet up at Grandma and Happy Hap’s in Bradford, Pennsylvania! And he had that same twinkle when we spent time together at Kenny’s wedding. What fun we had! You were a special one, Mike, and I will always remember your lightness and your smile. Give big hugs and kisses to Gram and Aunt Sally for me!
xoxoxo
Cousin Kelly
March 13th, 2010 at 9:23 am
Dear Jackie & family, How in the world can one man have an attitude that was amazing. I don’t think I’ve seen Mike without a smile. You were truly blessed to be by his side. Take care of yourself and remember how much Mike was loved. RIP Mike
March 13th, 2010 at 11:10 am
We were so very sorry to hear of Mike’s passing.Remember the memories made, and the love shared.To a great father,husband,and friend, You will be greatly missed.We love you,Mike and will never forget you.Our thoughts and prayers go out to Jackie and the family.
March 14th, 2010 at 3:29 pm
it is with shock and sadness that Kevin and I just discovered this news..
our hearts are with you, family and friends.
love, carolyn
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March 15th, 2010 at 1:06 pm
I enjoyed Mike’s wonderful sense of humor and great talents. I always told Mike he had the voice I wish I had when he was singing. He has touched so many people over the years, and I am proud to have been one of his friends and had to opportunity to play music with Mike. He is one of my favorite people in the world. I, as all of us are, am going to miss him forever. I am glad he touched my life. I love you Mike.
March 16th, 2010 at 7:08 am
To the Thamm family; Jackie and the boys, please accept our heartfelt condolences for your loss. Mike was a rare individual of multiple talents who readily shared his gifts with family, friends and those lucky enough to cross his path. I’m sorry we didn’t have more opportunities to enrich our lives with his wonderful sense of humor, his music and his kindness. And how fortunate for those who did.. Love from the western Thamm’s
April 8th, 2010 at 12:51 pm
To Jackie – It would “make my day” when I’d come to service at Culdee, and Mike would sing and play his wonderful songs. He amazed me with his tirelessness working the Interfaith Hospitality Network, he always inspired me to help out. Later, I enjoyed working with him at my office and then hearing him with the Randy Hughes Band. Mike was always somewhere and it was always a plesure to see him.
Jackie, your selflessness in your work was appreciated by everone in my family. Your’s and Mike’s dedication made you the perfect couple. I cannot imagine how devistated you must be, but please know you have “paid it forward” and there are many friends here to help you. Please call on me anytime.